Rabu, 13 Januari 2021

Reunited

 I could recognise him anywhere. Even in the sea of people bustling all directions. His wavy raven-black hair looked bluish under the streetlights, a significant contrast to his pale face. But his smile was like a blazing fire in the cold, radiating its warmth right into my heart, my pounding heart.

“Look at you,” he said without losing his gaze to me. “You’ve always told me about England or Australia. But look where you are! United States?”

I smiled. “Weird, isn’t it?”

“You escaped too far. It’s across the planet, and it’s freezing,” he shuddered. There was a faint blue shadow under his eyes. 

“I know,” I said still in disbelief.

The reality hit me again. He’s here. Solid and real, so close. I could even touch him, talk to him. There were tons of questions I had in mind and things I wanted to show him. But I just stared at him instead, afraid that he could probably disappear into the thin air. Or worse, waking up in my own bedroom only to have another breakdown.

He stared at me back, his smile vanished and for a second his eyes looked sad. He stepped forward closing our distance and hugged me. His chin rested on my shoulder. 

“I find you,” he whispered. His voice was barely audible in the middle of traffic noise. 

I took a deep breath as the memories of home burst around me. He was still smelled like the black tea, only without sunlight but freezing air and musky dust from the long flight. He was cold and warm at the same time.

When he pulled me tighter with both arms, I mumbled, “You have no idea how much I missed you.”

He was quiet for a few seconds, before murmuring, “I miss you too. I didn’t know I would fly half of the planet to be with you. But even if you returned to Mars, I would still find my way to you.”

I smiled, my throat tightened as tears streaming down in silence. “I know,” I managed to respond but my voice cracked from crying. “But you don’t have to be overdramatic like that.”

He laughed and stroked my head gently. “Are you crying? Oh, my sensitive little Martian, don’t cry. I’m here.”

I laughed too between my tears and buried my face on his damp jacket. Now everything was right. Again. Even all the dull colours of winter turned bright.



Jumat, 01 Januari 2021

Happy New Year!

 Happy new year!!!

Wow I can’t believe it’s 2021 already. 2020 had been a confusing roller coaster ride. Nothing significant happened to me since I had to stay at home for nine months.

I’ve wanted to write something here to welcome the new year since this morning, but my head was a mess and fortunately SMTown gave us a free live concert. So yeah.

As we all know 2020 had been difficult and full of unexpected turning events. Who would’ve thought such a pandemic would hit the world? An invisible virus that turned everything upside down...

And as a commoner in a developing country, the effects were inevitable. Some days it felt surreal other days it hit me like a wrecking ball.

But let’s avoid talking about the government of this country and the majority of people in dealing with this once in a lifetime pandemic. Because I want my mind to stay in peace.

Albeit feeling tremendously useless in 2020, I learned a  lot. I found new perspectives in understanding life and people, and myself. I even found some new hobbies I had never imagined before; watching or listening to true crimes stories and reading trivial histories. Now I sound like a smart aleck when the truth is I’m still a thick hopeless romantic.

But I had a hunch that probably God sent us a virus to remind us that “it’s okay to slow down and stop trying to control something you can’t even control.” Or maybe that’s just an excuse made by my own head because I’m just a lazy penniless introvert.

Also.. basically life sucks, crust dwellers! But we’re alive so just keep on living~

And stop telling people to do something they can’t even control. Living itself is already hard enough. There are too many variables and complexities happen to an individual that make them what they are. Much less in the 2020.

What I’m trying to say is (especially to myself), it’s okay to not accomplish anything last year. Life goes on. And people might still ask you a bunch of questions that the answers should be answered by God himself in whatever you do. But remember we are enough. We matter. Even when I think I’m a big walking disappointment, I’m still thinking I’m important. Because we’re alive, folks! We’re not ghouls haunting the abandoned places.

Now I’m going to talk about myself again.

So, what have I done in 2020 besides breathing? Dozing off whilst watching dramas or youtube... But I don’t think it’s counted. So the answer is nothing.

I also became a slow sensitive reader. With my fluctuating moods and messed up mind, I had a difficult time to finish a book. I still read fictions by the way, I had tried to read non fictions but my brain wasn’t made for intelligence reads. I could only read a few pages a day before thinking “Oh, this is too much” or “Give me a good love story!” or “These dumbass characters...” and just stopped reading for weeks. But heil children books I still managed to complete my annual book challenge. Because they were only a few pages and didn’t require your brain capability, only your wild childish imagination.

2020 also made me better at doing house chores. I used to love doing house chores only in The Sims now I began to love it in real life thanks to this quarantine. My cookings also got better, which in my case they were no longer bland. But it’s still limited in cooking veggies and various types of noodle, or grilling fish. Because I can’t handle popping hot oil and complicated south-eastern spices.

Wow it gets even more unimportant and garbage-like here. I should’ve written something inspiring and motivating for public. But I don’t believe in motivations because like I said before, too many variables and complexities happen to an individual, easy motivating words cannot relate. And my life isn’t inspiring at all.. So just bear with it.

But my cats’ life is more inspiring maybe they should write in my blog instead of me.

Once again, happy new year! I wish our days ahead are still full of loves and positive attitudes. And I wish this civilisation we have now stay and get better because I don’t want to witness a falling civilisation... Make it happen when I no longer exist.


xxL